It seems like lately there have been a lot of incidents in the news about angry outbursts from people. Last week Congressman Joe Wilson shouted, "You lie!" at President Obama during his speech on health care. This weekend Serena Williams lost a match in the US Open because of a penalty for berating a line judge after having a foot fault called on her. On Sunday, Kanye West literally jumped up on stage at the MTV awards and stole the microphone out of Taylor Swifts hands to rant about how Beyonce deserved to win instead. Yesterday Roger Federer cursed at a chair umpire after Juan Martin del Potro was allowed to challenge a call after what Federer thought was too long of a delay.
We could talk about how disappointing it is that these well known people act in such a way, that they let their anger get out of control. We could chalk it up to the celebrity lifestyle, or say that it's yet another example of how people living in excess come to expect everything to revolve around them. But let's be honest. These well known people are not the only ones who have angry outbursts.
How many people have ever had someone show them an obscene hand gesture while driving in traffic? (How many of you have been the one giving the obscene hand gesture?)How many people have witnessed the pushing, shoving, and actual fistfights over the hottest gift at christmas? Or how many people yell at their kid or pet for the slightest infraction? Whether you have personally done any of these things or not, most of us have witnessed these types of angry outbursts for minor infractions.
It seems like there is this undercurrent of anger in our society and the slightest little thing can set people off into a tirade. And even in the moment, when you're watching something happen, you know that the reaction is way out of proportion to the incident. The person who's yelling or giving obscene hand gestures in traffic is angry, but probably about more than just a person driving too slow or cutting them off. People fighting over the hottest gift at Christmas are angry and desperate, but probably not just over that particular gift. People who yell at their kid or their dog for making a mess, are probably mad about more than just needing to clean up the mess.
And what I find fascinating about all these angry outbursts in our society over such trivial things, is how deafeningly silent we are as a society about things that actually matter. We get indignant about the slightest hint of being treated unfairly ourselves, or someone infringing on our personal freedom. But when it comes to the genocide in Darfur, or the AIDS/HIV pandemic happening all over the world, or the millions of people around the world without access to clean water or enough food we are surprisingly silent.
So why is it that we are so angry about such little things, and not angry about such big things? In one of his NOOMA videos, Rob Bell says, "Some people are looking for a fight because they aren't in one." In the gospels we have all sorts of stories of the religious leaders getting angry at Jesus. In Mark there's a story of Jesus healing a man with a shriveled hand on the sabbath. The Pharisees were angry that he would heal on the sabbath day. They were more concerned with the rules and regulations than with having compassion on the man who had a shriveled hand. It says they were so angry that they began to plot how to kill Jesus, all because he healed a man.
Jesus gets frustrated and angry in the bible, but each time it's in response to other people being stepped on or oppressed or marginalized. Yet so often we claim, "I have a right to be angry!" This person has hurt me or taken away my rights. But I once heard it said that it's not a matter of if we have a right to be angry, it's a question of if we have a responsibility to be angry.
Do you have a responsibility to be angry because you were cut off in traffic. No, not really. Do you have a responsibility to be angry that children are being turned into soldiers, that girls are sold into sex slavery, that millions die of preventable diseases every year? Yes, absolutely. You have a responsibility to be angry, and to do something about it.
What is your next outburst going to be about?
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Five practices of Fruitful Congregations by Robert Schnase
- This book is about some practices that growing churches have in common. Provides some interesting things to think about. So far it's well worth the read.
Foreign to Familiar by Sarah Lanier
- This is a good book for anyone who is going on a cross-cultural experience. I'm only about half-way through but it's very enlightening to see some of the differences in the way different cultures process and react to similar situations. Growing up in many different places, this book rings very true to my own personal experience.
Celtic Christian Communities by Ian Bradley
- This book takes a critical look at monastic communities and what we can incorporate from them into christian communities today. I'm not sure how good this book will be. I must admit, the primary reason that I picked up the book is because I've always been fascinated by Christianity in Ireland. There's something about it that I've always been drawn to.
UnChristian by David Kinnaman and Gabe Lyons
- So far this book is awesome. David Kinnaman works for the Barna group and did a national survey of non-christians' opinions of christianity. The results are really startling. The book talks about the results, and why we need to be aware of them. It also talks about what we need to change to stop hindering the spread of the gospel.
Prayer by Phillip Yancey
- What I like so far about this book is that Phillip Yancey engages some very difficult questions about prayer. Haven't read much of this in awhile.
A Year with Dietrich Bonhoeffer
- This is a devotional book I've been using.
God's Politics by Jim Wallis
- This is one of those books I eventually want to make it all the way through. It's really thick. I read a few pages every now and then, in between reading other books. It's a little too dense for me to read too much at a time.
- This book is about some practices that growing churches have in common. Provides some interesting things to think about. So far it's well worth the read.
Foreign to Familiar by Sarah Lanier
- This is a good book for anyone who is going on a cross-cultural experience. I'm only about half-way through but it's very enlightening to see some of the differences in the way different cultures process and react to similar situations. Growing up in many different places, this book rings very true to my own personal experience.
Celtic Christian Communities by Ian Bradley
- This book takes a critical look at monastic communities and what we can incorporate from them into christian communities today. I'm not sure how good this book will be. I must admit, the primary reason that I picked up the book is because I've always been fascinated by Christianity in Ireland. There's something about it that I've always been drawn to.
UnChristian by David Kinnaman and Gabe Lyons
- So far this book is awesome. David Kinnaman works for the Barna group and did a national survey of non-christians' opinions of christianity. The results are really startling. The book talks about the results, and why we need to be aware of them. It also talks about what we need to change to stop hindering the spread of the gospel.
Prayer by Phillip Yancey
- What I like so far about this book is that Phillip Yancey engages some very difficult questions about prayer. Haven't read much of this in awhile.
A Year with Dietrich Bonhoeffer
- This is a devotional book I've been using.
God's Politics by Jim Wallis
- This is one of those books I eventually want to make it all the way through. It's really thick. I read a few pages every now and then, in between reading other books. It's a little too dense for me to read too much at a time.
Books I recently finished reading
Blue like Jazz by Donald Miller
- I have to admit, I tried to read this book a few years ago and just couldn't get into it. I recently picked it up again. I find it kinda slow in the beginning. But once you get past the first several chapters it gets better. It has some really interesting thoughts on Christianity. Would make a good book for a small group to discuss.
Mudhouse Sabbath by Lauren Winner
- I HIGHLY recommend this book. It's written by a woman who converted from Judiasm to Christianity when she was in college. She writes about some of the shared practices that Jews and Christians have in common. She also talks about what Christians can learn from some of the Jewish traditions. This book will help you look at some christian practices and rituals in new ways. It's an easy read and definitely worth the time. It would make an awesome small group discussion book.
A Tony Clemens Christmas Miracle by James Lilley
- This is a fun quick read. Some of the language in it is not appropriate for children. But if you want to think of God with a sense of humor and using a practicle joker to work miracles you'd enjoy this book.
Marley and Me by John Grogan
- This was a really sweet book. If you are a dog owner you'll understand the stories and antics of the lovable Marley. With so much pain and hatred in the world, it's nice to be reminded of humanities remarkable capacity to love and to be loved.
The Shack by William Young
- This book was interesting. It encourages you to think beyond typical understanding and explanations. Ultimately, God is a mystery and no explanation we can must will be able to completely explain God. In that light, this book helps to stretch our understanding of God. If nothing else, this book is a good conversation starter, an avenue to help draw us deeper into relationship with God and one another.
People of Integrity by William Morgan Jr.
- This is actually a small group study. It's written by a United Methodist pastor and is an Excellent book! I highly recommend it. It's a good book to read even if you are not studying it as a part of a group. It's designed to read one chapter a week. Each chapter has some discussion questions at the end as well as some devotional suggestions for the week.
Adventures In Missing the Point by Brian McClaren and Tony Campolo
- I thought this book was good. There were a few topics that we less interesting to me than others and since the chapters pretty much stand alone, I'd say if you're not interested in those topics than just skip those chapters. As always I don't agree with everything in this book but it does encourage you to think about how we often miss the point.
Seeing Gray in a World of Black and White by Adam Hamilton
- I would recommend this book to anyone who is looking to explore a middle group on many very divisive issues.
The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis
- This was a fun read. It warps your mind a little bit as you need to think backwards so to speak. Very clever in the way it points out the common mistakes many Christians and Churches make.
- I have to admit, I tried to read this book a few years ago and just couldn't get into it. I recently picked it up again. I find it kinda slow in the beginning. But once you get past the first several chapters it gets better. It has some really interesting thoughts on Christianity. Would make a good book for a small group to discuss.
Mudhouse Sabbath by Lauren Winner
- I HIGHLY recommend this book. It's written by a woman who converted from Judiasm to Christianity when she was in college. She writes about some of the shared practices that Jews and Christians have in common. She also talks about what Christians can learn from some of the Jewish traditions. This book will help you look at some christian practices and rituals in new ways. It's an easy read and definitely worth the time. It would make an awesome small group discussion book.
A Tony Clemens Christmas Miracle by James Lilley
- This is a fun quick read. Some of the language in it is not appropriate for children. But if you want to think of God with a sense of humor and using a practicle joker to work miracles you'd enjoy this book.
Marley and Me by John Grogan
- This was a really sweet book. If you are a dog owner you'll understand the stories and antics of the lovable Marley. With so much pain and hatred in the world, it's nice to be reminded of humanities remarkable capacity to love and to be loved.
The Shack by William Young
- This book was interesting. It encourages you to think beyond typical understanding and explanations. Ultimately, God is a mystery and no explanation we can must will be able to completely explain God. In that light, this book helps to stretch our understanding of God. If nothing else, this book is a good conversation starter, an avenue to help draw us deeper into relationship with God and one another.
People of Integrity by William Morgan Jr.
- This is actually a small group study. It's written by a United Methodist pastor and is an Excellent book! I highly recommend it. It's a good book to read even if you are not studying it as a part of a group. It's designed to read one chapter a week. Each chapter has some discussion questions at the end as well as some devotional suggestions for the week.
Adventures In Missing the Point by Brian McClaren and Tony Campolo
- I thought this book was good. There were a few topics that we less interesting to me than others and since the chapters pretty much stand alone, I'd say if you're not interested in those topics than just skip those chapters. As always I don't agree with everything in this book but it does encourage you to think about how we often miss the point.
Seeing Gray in a World of Black and White by Adam Hamilton
- I would recommend this book to anyone who is looking to explore a middle group on many very divisive issues.
The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis
- This was a fun read. It warps your mind a little bit as you need to think backwards so to speak. Very clever in the way it points out the common mistakes many Christians and Churches make.
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